It is according to how we are able to answer the question of what we do (normally the first enquiry we will have to field in any new acquaintance) that the quality of our reception is likely to be decided.

Alain De Botton
About This Quote

This is a great saying that explains that whether or not you like someone is up to them. You can do everything right, but if the person you are talking with does not like you, they will not like you. The same goes for if you believe someone likes you. It’s all up to them.

Source: Status Anxiety

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